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QUESTION: What is the difference between men and women? ANSWER: A woman wants one man to satisfy her every need. A man wants every woman to satisfy his one need.

By Divoka Sarka

Training your male to please you is good enough, but if he starts to become c*cky, you will need to re-educate him. The following is a compilation of humiliations to get him in the right frame of mind; some teases to encourage him, and punishments to eliminate unwanted behaviors.

Some fun teases:
- Order him to strip and stand at attention with his legs spread. It is more effective if you remain fully clothed. Order him to get hard and masturbate for you. If he starts to enjoy it, make him stop. With his hands on his head, have him do the d*ckie dance, swaying round and round. Be sure he notices your amusement.

- Foot worship humbles the man, so have him do it often, even in front of others you choose to share it with. Make sure the tongue bath is complete, and enjoy having your toes sucked.

- Always have him address you by your preferred title.

- Tease him with your ass, make him kneel behind you and beg to kiss your rear. Let him know that this is privilege which must be earned. Make him beg until he is crazy with desire.

- Cuff his hands behind him or to his belt, and see how quickly he can remove your panties with his teeth.

- His c*ck and balls belong to you, so deny him the right to touch himself for about six days. On the day you decide to allow him release, make him cum on a plate while kneeling before you. For added humiliation, have him lick the plate clean.

- With rope or handcuffs, secure his hands behind his back. See how long he can kneel naked at attention. Sit back and relax with a good book or TV program. Do not allow him to make eye contact, and if his attention wanders, casually nudge and poke his genitals with the tip of your shoes.

- Make a lead with rope or yarn, tying it tight around the head of his hard p*nis... once tight, it makes an excellent way to lead him around, simply by tugging. Shake it back and forth and watch his balls jiggle!

- A slave should learn as much about his owner, and your pheromones will bind him even stronger to your rule, so have him sniff your panties, but only without touching you!

- Secure him to the bed and tease him like crazy for hours on end! Get creative; a bag of ice cubes on his balls will bring him down, warmly massaging him with hot oil will get him hot, and to really drive him crazy, masturbate him with just the lightest of touches. Keep him on the edge for as long as you wish, extracting promises all the way... and once he reaches his limit, don't let him orgasm! He'll be begging you for more...

- Men are visual creatures, and many go crazy at the sight of a lady in lingerie or leather. So use this to increase his desire and frustration.

- You can learn to condition his responses, by tickling him (feathers work best), tweaking his nipples, or using your nails to scratch his skin. Keep him constantly aroused, but remind him that he's not to cum until you say so!

- After Queening him for awhile, sit back on his chest and extract more promises from him. Offer him your nipples to suck, but keep just out of reach. Soon he will beg for this treat, but don't give in just yet, take a break and make him think about his promises to you.

- Do the same before Queening, squat over him, just out of reach, and see how far he can stretch his tongue to reach you... have him tell you how your p*ssy owns him. Make him promise to serve it forever.

- Tie him down, and blind him with a silken blindfold. Instruct him in pleasing you, while you enjoy multiple orgasms. If you need to, take a break, then come come back and see if he's learned, by starting all over again..

- Ride his face, rubbing your p*ssy all over his face. Rest in-between orgasms, sitting on his face while he learns breath control. Drill his skills with his panties in your mouth or some other effective gag.

- Tie his balls off to another slave's balls, or some furniture placed behind him so he has to stretch his balls to lick your panties or kiss your ass... always stay just out of reach.

- Attach objects to his balls with string or rope. A little weight will test his limits, or have him drag the weights across the floor, trailing him while you walk beside him and whip his ass!

- Show him how you like to masturbate. Use your toys and make him watch and learn what you like..

- Strap the d*ldo to his face or place it in his mouth. Make him satisfy you with it. Have him do you from behind this way, so that his nose presses against your anus. Now you have your very own brown-noser!

- Always have him lick your toys clean.

- Secure him to the bed, then handcuff or tie his hands to his genitals. Tell him he is not allowed to cum, but in a most predictable manner, with a couple hours of access, he WILL cum. You must punish him thoroughly for his disobedience.

- Blindfold him with dirty worn panties. The scent of you will bond him to you and your needs.

- Get him in the habit of wearing a c*ck ring or harness, even a cat collar if it fits, massage him until he gets hard, and whack the head of his c*ck with a ruler, your hand or a flyswatter. Tell him he's a bad c*ck.

List of Humiliations:
Eventually, such treatment of a male will have him conditioned to your rule, after all, who is he going to complain to if he doesn't like it?

Now is the time to test the depth of his devotion, we call it the "do anything to please You" stage. Put him to the test, this list of humiliations will keep your slave humble and more manageable. Plus, it can be quite a lot of fun!

- Whether he likes it or not, have him wear your panties and lingerie (or make him buy his own!). He'll be so dear dressed up as a little girl or a French maid, serving you (and guests?) dinner and tending your drink while you relax, reading or watching TV. Send him to kneel in the corner of the room until he is needed.

- Of course, he must always do the housework nude, or in women's clothing.

- An important service he must learn to perform is the hand-washing of your delicates and lingerie.

- Place a collar and a leash around his neck and put him through his paces as your puppy. During these special games together, he must also eat his dinner from a dog dish on his knees, while you enjoy your dinner at the table.

- You go Cowgirl! Train him to let you ride him around the house as you own little private pony boy... still have your girlhood pony spurs? And don't forget the riding crop!

- If you've got him by the c*ck, the heart will follow, so secure a leash to his balls or c*ck ring (now yours), and lead him around the house telling him what belongs to you.

- This is also useful to tie him up in front of the sink while he does the dishes.

- Does he need an attitude adjustment? Then dress him up like the slut that he is, put on you favorite strap-on d*ldo and make him beg to suck it, being sure to wait until he is really pleading, with an earnest voice. When he has sucked it for a while, bend him over and f*ck him with it until you come.

- Keep his mind on you and prevent unfaithfulness by making him wear your lacy underwear under his regular clothes. He will think of you all day, and will be less likely to stray, for fear of embarrassment.

- If he's constantly horny (and what slave isn't?), but you're not quite in the mood, a good remedy is to strip him naked and make him quietly kneel in front of you. Make him keep his erection displayed, and give him a hand if he starts to flag.

- Make him get hard... as he starts to rise, hand him a bottle of lotion and order him to start stroking. Tell him that he has until the count of 100 to cum, but only if you give the OK. As he begs for permission to cum, forbid it. If he cums anyways, punish him.

- A slave must always earn his rewards; some examples:
Give him the pleasure of kissing your ass after he has cleaned the kitchen.
To get him focusing on your pleasure allow him a few minutes of gratification, say after a marathon p*ssy licking session, and only if you've gotten your multiple orgasms. Or you can always whip him 10 times for every minute it takes for him to get himself off.

- If you decide to let him cum, make him do his business onto your foot or on the heels of your boots. Or have him cum onto a small saucer or your ass. Of course he must lick up after himself, and after an orgasm, he will be more susceptible to this humiliation.

- Have him masturbate himself right to the point of orgasm. Instruct him to stay there and wait for your permission to cum. Then command him to cum before you count to twenty. If he doesn't shoot off on your command, punish him, or don't let him orgasm for a couple of days.

- If your slave is wasting your time seeking relief, order him to jerk off 3-5 times in one afternoon. If he starts to flag, you can do it for him... get creative, wear gloves, menthol cremes, add sand to the Vaseline... angora is always a nice start...

- After studding your steed, make sure he cleans you afterwards, with his tongue.

- When heading out for the evening, have him him to tie himself up, naked of course, or in woman's clothing. If not tied up in the bedroom or garage, he must greet you kneeling at the door.

- Put the onus on him, by having him write down new ways for you to humiliate him. Of course, you'll need to punish him for not making them good enough.

Some effective punishments:
Correct his bad behavior strongly the first time, often you won't need to repeat the punishment. Motivate him to try and please you better, or just do it because you enjoy the power.

- Give him a sound spanking or whipping. Useful implements include wooden spoons, your hairbrush, his belt, a ruler, or a ping pong paddle, which is very effective.

- Give him time to think about his errant ways by tying him up in uncomfortable positions.

- Called the 'Monk's Prayer', let him reflect by securing his bound ankles to his balls.

- Hog tie him, that's ankles and wrists tied together behind his back while he lays on his stomach.

- Hang him from the ceiling by his wrists... you'll soon have his undivided attention.

- Secure him bent over the armchair, and secure him well! This position is great for spanking, as he is completely vulnerable and exposed. Stuff things into his rectum, but be careful not to cut him. Get a pair of doctor's gloves and give him a nice anal exam... now is the perfect time to explore his prostate and practice your milking techniques.

- One of my favorites is to tie up his balls and c*ck with a long string, like clothes line, leather thongs or boot laces. A long piece works best, wrap the base and balls repeatedly, until they stand out separately. Once he's nice and secure, measure his balls for heft and texture. Make sure he knows in no uncertain terms that these belong to you now... and you shall do with them as you please. You can use them for pleasure, or pain, and show him both so that he associates the feelings with your presence. Squeeze them tight and ask him who they belong to. Make a recording of this to remind him when he gets c*cky. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. Allow him a few minutes to grasp the significance of his life.

- Keep the pole under control by always making him wear a c*ck cage or chastity device.

- Attach clothes pins to available surfaces, the testicles are perfect, then get out the strap-on and go to town.

- One word; Enemas.

- Orgasm denial is the most fun you can have with his d*ck, so make sure he has to ask you for permission to cum. Whenever possible, deny his orgasms for long periods of time.

- Tie him down and drip candle wax on his sensitive areas. Encase his c*ck in wax, and get creative with the colors!

- Keep your slave in shape and you'll have a sexier slave. While nude, have him do his routine. Be sure to include lots of jumping jacks (hilarious), knee bends, squats, aerobics, whatever he needs.

- Get a nice pair of opera length gloves and tell him he has to learn about face spanking. He shall kneel before you and make his face available, while you slap him repeatedly, varying your stroke. He should get a little dizzy, but your admonishments will get through.

- Grab him by the hair, pull his head down between your legs and make him service you with his whole face. When you feel your orgasm coming on, order him back and slap him about the head a couple times before grinding his face on your p*ssy again and again, as long as you like! After a little bit of this treatment, slap his hard-on and tell him what a good tool he is.

- For some real fun, get an inflatable love doll (they are expensive found at adult book stores) and have him perform with his new lover for you, or even your friends! As you watch him going at it, give him a few swats on his ass for encouragement, and have him tell you what he's feeling. An act like this is perfect to video record, for blackmail commitments, payback, or just for the fun of sending it out to his co-workers and associates.

Whatever you do, be creative and have fun! The male psyche is a very malleable thing, just look at how they condition themselves for wars... once broken to your lead, your male will be a very useful creature for bringing you comfort and support.